Cherish Your Love
Just heard shocking news that a close friend has divorced his wife.
Sigh. Dunno why, I just can't get over it. He said he has done nothing wrong, she said he has strayed. What is what, only they both know. It's so depressing that love is so fragile. A couple can be so lovey dovey 5 years ago, but 5 years later, they ended up in bad note and Divorce seems to be the only easiest way out. I have seen so many cases and often it is the men who could not keep their dickies in their pants and destroyed the marriage.
Read from somewhere that men strayed becos' they found the 10% or 5% in a new woman where their spouse is lacking. Why go for 10% when you have already owned 90%? I dun understand. It takes longer to be in love than out of love, so why waste the time you have spent loving one person and throw it all down to the drain just for the moment of impulse? I know how is it like after a breakup, but a Divorce? It's like your heart shattered into millions and zillions of pieces, even if it's pieced back together, the scar leaves permanently, even what crap laser treatments won't help erase the scar away...u know what I mean?
Urghh..I dunno what came to me, it's just sad that a close friend is going through the rough patch and I can't help much. All I can hope is that he has chosen his right path and get on with his life. His story has taught me to cherish the hubby more than ever and not take each other for granted. I swear I will not tekan the hubby to go buy my favourite chee cheong fan from Ghim Moh Market every weekend, I swear I will not nag at him for not switching off the lights at home when he has used them, I swear I will keep him more backrubs when he complaint of aches...
On a happy note, yeah! It's the weekend!! It's yummy chee cheong fan, yam cake and glutionous rice for breakfast tomorrow morning!! 3 Cheers for Hubby! Go Go Patrick Goh!
Sigh. Dunno why, I just can't get over it. He said he has done nothing wrong, she said he has strayed. What is what, only they both know. It's so depressing that love is so fragile. A couple can be so lovey dovey 5 years ago, but 5 years later, they ended up in bad note and Divorce seems to be the only easiest way out. I have seen so many cases and often it is the men who could not keep their dickies in their pants and destroyed the marriage.
Read from somewhere that men strayed becos' they found the 10% or 5% in a new woman where their spouse is lacking. Why go for 10% when you have already owned 90%? I dun understand. It takes longer to be in love than out of love, so why waste the time you have spent loving one person and throw it all down to the drain just for the moment of impulse? I know how is it like after a breakup, but a Divorce? It's like your heart shattered into millions and zillions of pieces, even if it's pieced back together, the scar leaves permanently, even what crap laser treatments won't help erase the scar away...u know what I mean?
Urghh..I dunno what came to me, it's just sad that a close friend is going through the rough patch and I can't help much. All I can hope is that he has chosen his right path and get on with his life. His story has taught me to cherish the hubby more than ever and not take each other for granted. I swear I will not tekan the hubby to go buy my favourite chee cheong fan from Ghim Moh Market every weekend, I swear I will not nag at him for not switching off the lights at home when he has used them, I swear I will keep him more backrubs when he complaint of aches...
On a happy note, yeah! It's the weekend!! It's yummy chee cheong fan, yam cake and glutionous rice for breakfast tomorrow morning!! 3 Cheers for Hubby! Go Go Patrick Goh!
posted by sengmook @ 3:37:00 PM
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